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I am sorry for your pain. I understand how you feel and pray today will be a day of positive change for you, that you will be blessed beyond measure and abound with strength and peace! Blessings! Deb B
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What's on your heart and mind today?

 in response to lunar*star...   Hi lunar*star, what you want to talk about, generally I am a good listener....:)
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What's on your heart and mind today?

 in response to remember...   awww, ty it is a blessing to be able to help in any way! Merry CHRISTmas!
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What's on your heart and mind today?

 in response to MeeMee56...   That is wonderful, we always sing Happy Birthday to Jesus first thing of Christmas morning & have a birthday cake! Take care...Deb
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 in response to remember...   We just need food & household supplies, we have gotten so low we need to restock even on the basics & my grandson who lives w/me & his dad provides no support needs clothes, he is a "big boy" & growing quickly. I am recently disabled & due to maxing out local non profits for assitance for lights, medicine, etc we are ineligible for CHRISTmas help but we are grateful to have each other & still be living.Fuel oil will be a luxery we will be unable to access, 100 gallons is 399.00 here in NC delivered & it seems so greedy to ask for all of our needs we are just praying that even if we got say a WalMart cards for our basics & food, maybe enough outfits for him to have school clothes we would be so blessed. He is so smart, on Honor Roll, 6 years in Band w/honors classes a great young man! Blessings to you & yours! Deb
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What's on your heart and mind today?

 in response to niece59...   Father, there is so much pain & suffering here, so many of us stand in real need Lord. I beg that you have mercy on us & every person that is able to help in any way what so ever reaches out to someone right now. As we celebrate the birthday of Jesus allow us to remember that he truly is the reason for ALL seasons & that we have obligations to our fellow man. Father those of us depressed & discouraged, restore our joy. Give all of us peace and prosperity Father & just make ways out of no way. We will give you the praise, honor & the glory. In Jesus name, Amen!
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What's on your heart and mind today?

 in response to remember...   You can mix cinnamon & applesauce to a rather thickened consistancy, use cookie cutters or make your own designs, just dont make them to thick so they can dry & be hung on the tree, if you wish you can use fabric paint to decorate & the tree smells good to! You can cut out shapes on cardboard & decorate w/glue & odds &ends u have in craft box or foil. Merry CHRISTmas!
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What's on your heart and mind today?

 in response to PLZHLP!...   PLZHLP-I am sorry for your pain & your loss. I so totally understand the plea for help and getting no response & struggling desperately w/life altering depression. I am disabled & I have begged for help, I am sure the please for help far exceed the people able to help although it would be more encouraging to read some of the praise reports of requests actually being addressed. I do want to encourage you & let you know I am praying that God gives you strength & blesses you in ways only he can do. Merry CHRISTmas!
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What's on your heart and mind today?

 in response to angelsingleton...   Praise God, it is so important for us not to take things for granted and not forget to praise God for his many blessings even in the midst of problems! Deb
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What's on your heart and mind today?

 in response to aodtwo...   I am so sorry for your pain. I understand. I am sure this is a good site & perhaps many are helped. I know the number needinghelp probably far exceed the number providing help. I have tried repeatedly, commented on other's posts, all the suggestions given to be successful here and even though none of it resulted in any help I am thankful that I was able to encourage and pray for others. Please keep your head up, I know that sounds hollow to you at this time but I am praying that God quickly intervenes on your behalf that your every positive effort be met with success. Blessings & Merry CHRISTmas-Deb
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PLEASE Don't Pass My Plea By!

 in response to troy flora...   Sorry Troy, I always feel as though I must justify my asking 4help,not just present the facts as that approach has not benefited much during this ordeal. I know my request was lengthy, believe it or not I went back & tried 2 make it as concise as possible, but I do appreciate you taking the time 2 read it though! Happy Thanksgiving to you & yours! Deb B
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PLEASE Don't Pass My Plea By!

Pray u all r well & preparing 2 enjoy a blessed Thanksgiving w/those u love.I have unsuccessfully ask 4help here b4, just dk anymore what maybe legit assistance, or not.I continue 2pray 4intervention not only 4myself but 4others in genuine need as well.Will attempt 2b as brief as possible. I am recently disabled due 2  injury @work.State of NC denied claim due 2 "no one witnessing" accident, in actuality, there was another employee who was about 25ft away but she is finishing up her career w/this school system&anticipating retirement w/no probs. Sadly,politics plays a big part in the county where I was employed.Immediately after my fall,I was diagnosed w/broken hip & various probs., w/back/knees & required immediate surgery which did not go well as far as recovering use of my right side & pain.How anyone can even b allowed 2deny a claim that is so blatant w/o question is beyond me. Long story short, being out of work w/no income forced me 2 file bankruptcy&it was dismissed due 2my being unable 2maintain the payments that were set after I was unable 2return 2work.I am now filing again in an effort 2save my home.I have just my disability,which is very small&wont be eligible 4any state medical coverage until March,in the meantime I have many medications,dr.visits,etc that are a must.My daughter is w/me in my home w/her 15 yr old son,after her husband left&she discovered her home in foreclosure,etc.She goes 2school FT in an effort 2make a better life 4she&my grandson.She is on the President's List& is a true blessing 2me&my grandson is in Honor Classes making A's & colleges are already attempting 2recruit him,praise God.We go w/o a lot of basic needs as I know others do but 4 my grandson's sake I want so badly 2offer him some sort of CHRISTmas this year,it has been the most difficult 2yrs we have ever had in our lifes.He knows our situation&rarely asks 4anything at all.He is a "big" young man &really needs some jeans 4the winter,I have seen them in his size at WalMart, as well as the plain cotton tee shirts in his size.We all would love 2b able 2stock our kitchen w/just some basics,cereal,noodles,milk,peanut butter,etc nothing fancy & Caleb truly enjoys attending church&is helpful w/helping me get in/out,etc but often due 2medical visits&school attendance transportation our gas wont stretch that far.My daughter& I would b so grateful if there was a way 2obtain any of this.We stand in need of fuel oil but,I know that is a large request&I dont want 2hinder us getting any help by being greedy.I do pray that those granting help 2others though b aware that in our location,no one will deliver less than 50gallons&that is about $183.00 when I checked last wk,a full 100gallons is close to $399.00,pray that those here&elsewhere who r in need get help&that the daily costs of basic needs will become more affordable.I truly think alot of times people just aren't aware of how difficult it is when u are living 1 day 2the next.I appreciate u allowing me this forum 2request that someone PLEASE have mercy on us& as promptly as possible please help.I look forward 2the day when my daughter is employed&we r in a better position 2reach out 2others that have experienced a similar situation.I thank God 4this ministry,Blessings 2 those who will reach out&help those on this site that u can&to those on this site standing in need.I will be glad 2provide any other info that u may need&willing 2accept any help u can afford us. Deb B

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What's on your heart and mind today?

 in response to mighty...   Mighty,
I am so sorry for the trials & tribulations you are going through. Even though I am in a similair position & unable to offer financial resources, I did want to encorage you. I have fought a severe depression after my injury that resulted in my disabilty. I lost a part of my life that partially defined me & I fight daily to avoid the "black hole of despair" that the devil attempts to push me to. Sometimes you cant think to far advance, it is to overwhelming when we are burdened, take one day at a time, sometimes one hour at a time. I pray you will be blessed in every area of your life in a way that passes all understanding. Take care...Deb
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What's on your heart and mind today?

 in response to Flint...   Bernie,having been in a similar situation I can relate.I had worked in the Special Education in our local school system 4 yrs.I fell down a stairwell of a bus out on the pavement,broke my hip, injured my back,my accident resulted in my disability & my claim was denied by the State of NC because they claim no one witnessed my fall, untrue the Transportation Corordinator was aboard,I was dismissed the same day due 2 the fact I could not drive a bus so I know the frustration that is felt w/how unfair our pains can be, whther they be physical, emotional or financially. I wanted 2 encourage u & let u know I care & will be praying 4 you & your family that you will be blessed in ways unimaginable! Deb
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(((Red Diamond))))

Dear Red Diamonds, I am sorry 4 yr pain. I am in a dire financial position & have been on here awhile soliciting help so I am unable 2 tangibly help u but I would like 2 pray 4 u. Our most gracious & heavenly Father,please look down upon this family Lord & bless them in ways that only u can,heal, strengthen, provide all their needs, restore their spirits Father. Pick them up the palm of your hand shielding them from any fiery darts of the devil. Lord, we thank you 4 all u have done & all u r yet to do, 4 we will give u the praise,honor & the glory & we will humbly reach out 2 someone in our previous state & help them in whatever way we r able! Amen Take care...Deb
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Aidpage Open Letter: Zachary Andrew Collins Myrick

To the attention of:

Barack Obama, US President;
Beverly Perdue, Governor of North Carolina;
US Senators from North Carolina: Kay R. Hagan, Richard Burr;
US Representatives from North Carolina: Brad Miller, David E. Price, G. K. Butterfield, Heath Shuler, Howard Coble, Larry Kissell, Melvin L. Watt, Mike McIntyre, Patrick T. McHenry, Renee L. Ellmers, Sue Wilkins Myrick, Virginia Foxx, Walter B. Jones;
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Sharon Collins

1132 Ada Avenue

WS, NC 27105

SCwinstonsalem@aol.com

debbooe@aol.com

 

10/15/11

CLAIM-ZACHARY ANDREW COLLINS MYRICK

#2006605

 

Attention Leaders,

   I am desperate and have no where else to turn. I will present a synopsis of my situation, I am not offering a justification for my circumstances, merely an explanation and a plea for rectification of this matter.

   I am a single mother. I work hard and receive no public assistance. I have an 18 year old son, of whom I am legal guardian and sole provider. He has been diagnosed ADHD, Bi-Polar, OCD, Autisim, Personality Disorder and MR. These diagnosis has affected Zach, and myself, negatively in so many ways. All of the information I am provding may be confirmed if need be or you could refer to SSI application which has lengthy documentation.

   I applied on July 21, 2011 for disabilty benefits for Zach. I provided every documentation requested and also other information I felt may be beneficial for his case.  On September 8, 2011, I called the office of Social Security to inquire as to what the status was regarding his claim. At that time, I was informed that medical records from Dr. Susan Ferrell's office had not been received, I contacted Dr. Ferrell's office and had them refax the medical records. I called on September 23, 2011 and was told he may need IQ testing, she thought not but she would notify me via mail within one to two weeks if he did require IQ testing. Testing was obtained within last year (sent to SS) and his score was 58. Zach was diagnosed with the variety of special needs since he was apx. 3 years old, requiring numerous meds and testing every aspect of his lack of capabilities. At that point, I had not had any communication with the SS office advising needed addtional testing since September 23rd when I last called. October 5, 2011, I called SS office and I am informed that all medical records had been received but they had not been written up nor submitted to doctor. Also, called Disability Examiner on October 5th, I left a message informing the examiner of the dire financial need that Zach was experiencing and the monies that had to be paid by myself for insurance, medications and visits to his team of doctors. I inquired in my message was there anything that I personally do to speed up this process and ask that she please return my call, she did not return call nor have any sort of communication to me.  October 14, 2011 at 8 AM and was told couldn't tell what claim status was and that the disabilty examiner would be calling me promptly regarding Zach's claim, again, no phone call or communication on her part (Disability Examiner-Chiqueta Wilson, phone 800-887-0821,ext. 6226).

   If  Zach is not promptly approved for SSI and the Medicaid that comes with it, I will be forced to terminate his school enrollment so that he would be eligible for Medicaid. Zach's medications are numerous and there is no way I can pay for these out of pocket. His medications, mental health appointments and monitoring drugs now taken due to the quanity and adverse affects are vital for Zach to maintain any sense of normalancy in his life, without them, he is uncontrollable and dangerously impulsive, becoming a danger to himself and others.

   I am pleading with you, please don't ignore my cries for help enabling Zach to become just another statisic.

   Receiveing calls on my job jepordizes my position and maintaining consistent employment is mandatory since there are no other forms of financial support in my home. Due to this factor, I authorize my sister, Deborah Collins Booe (336-331-3985) to discuss this matter with you as well as relay information to you. I am so desperate for Zach at this point it is disheartening, I have been his only advocate since we began this journey and now that he is reaching another milestone in his life (becoming 18) we still continue to struggle in obtaining reasonable expectations from the government.

   I look forward to hearing from you soon. I appreciate the opportunity to address my concerns with you and for the prompt, positive input that I trust will be forthcoming.

Sharon Collins

  

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Please Have Mercy and Help Us!

URGENT UPDATE PLEA!
From: DEBBOOE

Date: Tues., 9:30AM, 10/12/11



In light of time constraints I will attempt to give you a condensed version of my crisis.Kathleen Dubois, w/Crumley Roberts firm in WS,represents me in a claim re:injury received on my job resulting in a disability. I have been w/out employment for a little over 2 years&only reached a settlement on this past Tues.It was not the amount that was warranted nor needed for such an injury considering that my life&means to support myself,physically maintain an active life&mentally have the peace of mind to know I am a contributing member to society will never be what it was before this injury. I am denied the opportunity to do what I loved most in this life outside of my family.Unfortunately,the State of NC operating w/a 3 billion dollar deficit greatly affects the amount they offer to settle injury claims. I have proof of info if needed. I am anticipating my settlement in apx.8 weeks.

In the meantime, the last two years have taken a horrendous toll on my life. Physically,mentally, emotionally&financially. The only area of my life not affected by this trial by fire is my spiritual beliefs. I know God will not forsake me&He has brought me to this point for a purpose.

During the two years, as I battled continued physical problems&ultimately had to file bankruptcy to keep my home. My disability has not caused my obligations to cease. In addition to outrageous medical expenses, there is bankruptcy payments,electricity,water,insurance for cars up keep of same,gas,clothing,school supplies,food&household needs,etc. I have used local organizations frequently to assist me (Salvation Army,Rescue Mission, Crisis Control, Carver Road Church of Christ Clothing Closets, many local food banks, etc.). I am so grateful for their assistance but, as you know these entities are limited in the amount of funding they may provide for each family, sadly I have "maxed" out those resources.

I have completed all paperwork required for any public assistance available. I am unable to apply for a personal loan as that is not allowed under the Chapter 13 Bankruptcy Filing (Katherine Bringle). I have no outside family to turn to&I have only been in WS since Feb. 07 when my mom passed away on the 20th of Feb.&my dad passed away on the 26th of Feb. Prior to that I resided in Davie County for 30 years where I was blessed to work in the field of Exceptional Children, it has left a void in my life that I dk if it will ever be filled. I attend a small, local church that is very limited in their ability to assist financially but spiritually they have been a true strong hold!

Adding to my despair,I lost my son recently due to an accident. He was working under a car that he was restoring, something happened&the car fell on him. He was w/out oxygen for a time due to his vital organs being crushed&this gave him fatal brain damage.His only son actually found him. He passed away 2 days later, after being transferred to Baptist Hospital.

My son, his wife& 6 month old son are presently in my home due to the affect the economy had on them. Both of them are enrolled full time@Forsyth Tech. in an effort to better themselves so that their next efforts of independence will be successful. In addition to the medical needs I have,my son is asthmatic&requires nebulizer treatments&medication. My daughter&her 15yr.old son are in my home due to the fact that her husband (15 yr.'s old dad) abandoned them.My daughter's job, she had been on for 8yrs, had just been downsized&eliminated her position.We had no indication that he was considering this change.He shared details w/my daughter@how when he had went to take his children home (she had facilitated this relationship w/kids),he was doing a little more w/their mother than bringing children back. Unbeknownst to my daughter,the monies that her husband had been using to pay the mortgage actually wasn't going for that,her home was already in foreclosure. She was thrown in an emotional&mental tailspin that threatened to alter her life negatively for a long time to come. Thank God,she was able to pull herself out of the dark hole she was in&be the best she can be.She attends school FT in an effort to be able to support herself&my grandson as she&I both know that I will not be on this earth forever. She is on the Dean's List&my grandson was ranked #1 from all of the students@his school that were in the 9th grade.He is an Honor's Student&plays so well in band,a couple of high schools have vied for his enrollment. At this point my grandson's father is not actively supporting nor in contact w/him in over 2yrs.

I could go on but, I think you get the idea of my desperation.I am not by any means offering my "sob story" as justification for my situation,merely as an explanation.I am just pleading for an intervention to prevent another disaster from happening in my life affecting not only myself but, my family as well. I thank God that I can at least see the light at the end of this very long tunnel&pray that I will be able to restore a portion of my dignity,self respect,self esteem&financial stability although I know that I will NEVER be the same after this,some in good ways&some not.

I am in dire need of food/household basic needs (washing powder,dish wash liquid,tissue,etc). Due to schedules,we have to use 2 cars for transportation to/from school&band both of those cars need gas/oil to continue their education & current parking permits,they are $15.00 a piece for their school to prevent tickets being issued.I need gas for transport to my medical appts.&it would be a special blessing if I were to have the gas to attend my church on Sun.&Wed. I do realize that some will not consider attendance to church a basic need but it has been for me. W/out it I would have ended my life! W/out minutes on my prepaid Verizon cell phone I have no contact w/anyone,drs., schools or emergencies. We desperately need Pampers stage 3 (21lbs), we have attempted using less expense diapers & unfortunately baby had skin reaction,his father has excema& dr thinks perhaps baby has inherited skin sensitivity.Need unscented,sensitive baby wipes&baby food,stages 1 & 2. Food and household items are so imperative,we are unable to eat regularlly nor nitrutionally.My two grandsons deperately need warm clothing. Not making progress,keeps me awake at night & physically is making me ill. If my family were able to obtain help of anykind,their faith would be restored.

These are urgent needs.I have no problem w/gift cards should someone be kind enough to help, be it gas or grocery store, Walmart,etc.Not trying to instruct how my assistance should be handled but just a suggestion,I can understand someone being hesitant to send financial donations directly.I beg you please, hear my plea&help me,I dk anything else to do&I am fighting a good fight in just making an effort to maintain at this point&all I can do to go forward w/my life.Prayerfully,I will be able to reach out to someone else in a similar situation before my time here is done&encourage them w/a testimony of how God made a way out of no way by touching a heart & convicting them to extend their genoroisty.Please,God bless you for reading&for any&all help you can afford me. I am truly grateful for your consideration. Contact me ASAP w/any questions please!

Blessings, Deborah C. Booe WS, NC
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 in response to screwy...   I totally understand. We r human & we get overwhelmed & even frozen n place not knowing which way 2 go 2 make progress. I pray u will b given peace & clarity 2 remendy this situation immediately! Blessings-DEB
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 in response to jojo31...   JoJo31, sorry for the problems u r experiencing. Depends on where u live as 2 what type of resources may b available 2 u. I would suggest that u research local crisis centers, Salvation Army, churches that may have outreach programs etc. I pray that u will b able 2 quickly get the help u need! Take Care-DB
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